Whatever you need to be comfortable outside It’s an outdoor party, so bring anything you might need to stay comfortable—blankets, sunscreen, hats, or even a portable fan if you’re feeling fancy. We want you to have the best time ever! If you live in town, we’d love it if you could bring some outside seating/chairs--help us make sure everyone has a comfy spot to sit and enjoy the festivities! Dancing Shoes Don’t forget your dancing shoes! We’re planning to dance the night away, so be ready to show off your best moves. Best Photo Faces Come ready to flash those pearly whites! We want to capture all your lovely faces, so bring your best photo-ready smiles. Dollar Bills for the Drag Show Get ready for a fabulous drag show! Make sure to bring some dollar bills to show our performers some love.

Expect the weather in Norman, OK on September 28th to be warm and pleasant, with average high temperatures around 84.6°F and lows around 65.7°F​. With this in mind, you'll want to dress in a way that's cool for the temperature and cool for your style! Think casual chic—something comfortable yet stylish. Lightweight fabrics and layers will help you stay comfortable throughout the day. And don’t forget, part of this party will be on grass—so choose shoes that won't sink! Also--this is a gay wedding, so don't be afraid of bright colors. 😉

The early part of the day is perfect for families and kids! From 5-8 pm, we’ll have childcare available so parents can kick back and enjoy the evening (please make sure to note this on your RSVP). Once the childcare wraps up at 8 pm, we kindly ask that kids head home too!

After receiving several inquiries, we've created a small registry that includes items useful for our family and businesses, as well as some gift cards for a honeymoon and future plans. We truly appreciate everyone's generosity and love, but please know that your presence is the greatest gift to us. Also, in the spirit of giving, when you buy one of our wedding (bar crawl) t-shirts, a percentage of each sale goes to a local LGBTIA+ charity here in the OKC metro. That is another way you can honor and give in our name.

Just reach out to one of the brides! We don't bite! :)

Yes! We have some fun events planned for the weekend: Friday Evening: Join us for a Bar Crawl with the Brides down Main Street! Meet us at Lazy Circles at 7 pm to get your shirts, or you can find us at one of the bars along the way. It's going to be a blast! Sunday Morning: We’re planning to do Brunch with the Brides. Details are still being finalized, so stay tuned for more information. We’d love to have you join us to wrap up the weekend festivities.

We've got you covered with some fantastic options! Groovy Mule Food Truck will be onsite from 5-9 pm serving up delicious tacos, quesadillas, and more--with both meat and non-meat options. They’ll also have a variety of non-alcoholic beverage options to keep you refreshed. For those looking to enjoy a good brew, Lazy Circles Brewery is just around the corner. They offer plenty of beer options, including a special wedding brew that you won’t want to miss. In lieu of gifts, we kindly ask guests to purchase their own food and drinks. Your presence is the best gift we could ask for, and we can't wait to celebrate with you!

Street parking is available on Ponca and Eufaula. Drive, walk, or Uber/Lyft--we just want to see you there!

We have a few great options for you! Hotels: Express Inn and Suites: Convenient and comfortable. The Noun: A stylish and modern choice. Days Inn: Budget-friendly with all the essentials. Additionally, there are plenty of Airbnb options in the vicinity if you prefer a more home-like stay.

Downtown Norman has some fantastic spots you’ll love: For Food: The Diner: A local favorite for classic American breakfast and lunch. The Garage: Great burgers and fries in a casual setting. Moon Sushi: Delicious and fresh sushi with a variety of options. Sergio's Italian Bistro: Known for their amazing Italian dishes and cozy atmosphere. The Mont: Famous for their queso and outdoor patio. For Drinks: 405 Brewing Co.: A local favorite for unique craft beers. Bison Witches Bar & Deli: A laid-back place with good drinks and even better sandwiches. Scratch Kitchen & Cocktails: A great spot for creative cocktails and a fantastic atmosphere. Lazy Circles Brewing: Just around the corner from the wedding venue, with a variety of beers on tap. The Best of the Best (though we may be biased): The Custard Factory: Perfect for a sweet treat. Yellow Dog Coffee Company: Great coffee and a cozy atmosphere. These are just a few of the fantastic options available. Enjoy exploring Norman's vibrant food and drink scene!

For those with cars there is street parking on Ponca and Eufaula. For those without, we would suggest Uber/Lyft.

If you have any questions before the wedding, feel free to reach out to the brides directly. However, on the day of the wedding, please contact anyone other than the brides to help things run smoothly.

Capture and share your favorite moments from our special day using the hashtag #MarriedKateAndAshley! We're excited for you to take photos and enjoy the evening. Please remember, the ceremony will be a 'no phones' event as we have professional photographers capturing every moment.

We love your furry friends, but Sophie has claimed the spotlight for our wedding day! If you need accommodation for your pooch, reach out to Annie's Ruff House—they'll be delighted to care for your dog while you celebrate with us.